what do you mean by "unlovable"? cause i agree with september....the people that are unlovable usually cant even give love in the first place. they have to be ready and willing to give and receive. and for some reason, the receiving is often the hardest part.

depending on past relationships, parents and tons of other factors, a lot of people are brought up to think that they dont deserve it. whether its from old boyfriends cheating or hitting you or if your dad was just never around. you really have to be able to say that you love yourself first. thats usually the biggest problem. if you dont think you deserve it you will sabotage it and the cycle continues. you have to realize that you deserve the best and that you are beautiful in every way. if you dont see it, why would anyone else?

coming from a hypocrit i know lol i know i have issues that i need to work on but im trying everyday and since i have stopped putting myself down and obsessing about my appearance, my relationship has gotten a lot better. he used to get so mad when i would call myself ugly and i understand why now.

try giving yourself some positives everyday. work on your self esteem and your self worth. confidence is the biggest factor (at least to me) in attracting people and if you love yourself, youll be confident.