What precipitated this whole thing is my mom asked why I haven't been by to visit her lately. I told her the truth, that her apartment smells so bad I can't walk in there. I'm sorry, it's true. Aside from all the filthy, old clutter that I am very allergic to, the carpet is absolutely filthy and probably full of mold. She refuses to do anything about it.

So she got mad at me over that and that's why she made her situation explode with me. She had a knee jerk reaction and lashed out at me.