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Nov 04, 2016, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by stolemyheart87
Every time I tell a guy I am a virgin and I am saving myself for marriage I get responses like this
"Honestly I don't want to lead you on. I am expecting to have sex with the person I'm dating , and I think that is a problem so I think its best I don't lead you on. I think your very nice and sweet and I think its great you've held your virginity, hope you find what your looking for, it was nice meeting you."
Why can't no man wait it out, to have sex, on marriage night, during the honeymoon when your suppose to do it. Everyone tells me being a virgin is great and that special guy will come along, but honestly I don't think that's ever going to happen.
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When you're supposed to do it? By whom's rule are you saying that's when you're supposed to do it?
I appreciate that this is a value of yours, but it's not a value of everyone's. I wouldn't hold it against men who don't hold that value. Instead I would focus on finding someone who does find that as a value. Maybe trying something like Christian Mingle or attending church events where more people are likely to practice celibacy before marriage.
Good luck,
seesaw
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