I appreciate this. I wouldn't mind this situation with a woman, personally, although I'd probably be quite frustrated at times! Sex isn't the most important thing to me in a relationship; in-fact, it's generally pretty low down there on the list of priorities. Intimacy, passion, love, etc is important to me, however. Still, I'm assuming sex doesn't rule out other ... executions. xD Anywho, although I'm sure it's just hyperbole, it's not "no man", as I'm sure you've not met every single man, so hopefully that'll help remind you that things aren't so hopeless. Yes, though, I imagine most men will definitely not be up for that deal, but it's better to have someone better matched to you, right? In any case, best of luck to you.

I can think of a way in which it would actually be perfectly rational: waiting for a real commitment such as marriage would help a woman to feel her mate (man) is not just there for one thing, and will more likely actually stay to help raise a potential child, should the woman get pregnant. It's quite pragmatic from the woman's point of view. Granted, with the contraceptives available, you could argue it's still irrational, but I can appreciate the concept if you take away how we've socially and technologically avolved. Aside from that, I believe it matters because it matters to her.