I think it is very commendable that you are waiting. That said, why do you keep wanting guys to bend for you in so many ways while you consistently look for guys who are completely your opposite? Plus, you don't seem to want to move even an inch out of your comfort zone for them. I am not talking about celibacy here, which I agree you shouldn't compromise. You also shouldn't expect a guy to compromise his most important values for the same reasons you won't. However, relationships are all about compromise.

You want guys that are 24/7 available to you from the second you meet them, yet want them to be working. You also want them to be able to go out all hours of the night, mostly at metal shows, including weeknights and now this? Are men allowed to have their own interests and values other than your own?

You want guys who can call/text you at all hours of the day and night who are not likely to have a job and be independent. Plus you want guys who love the metal scene and value celibacy? That will be a rare fish.

Add that to your recent post, as a 29 year old(?), about living at home and running up the electric bill, which is a very teenage issue. To be very honest, dating should be the least of your priorities. I think you will find that when you focus on becoming more independent and mature, your dating issues will solve itself because you will be in a much better position and can present yourself as a healthy adult and men will respond so much better to that.

I hope you don't ignore what I said, I think women on here will agree with me, more or less. More often than not, advice we would rather not hear is exactly the advice we need to improve ourselves.