Hello there lonelyone

Oh my - what a situation to find yourself in. I would feel torn if it was me too. On one hand, I am sensing that you want to reach out to your sister as she may have been through an emotional time. On the other hand, you are sensing her quietness about this as a sign that she doesn't want to share it with you.

However, if it was me - I would talk to her in a supportive manner and tell her what you found in the magazine. It is not like you were snooping or anything. It may just be the situation that brings you closer together if that is what you want. You have to think of the affect this will have on your relationship with her. If you do choose to talk to her about it, just remember that she may have changed her mind about wanting kids. I don't think anything is a lie....she may have changed her mind from what she wanted years ago and decided to have a child....you really don't know until you ask her. Be supportive...she will need that from you.

There are more women today having babies well into their 40's now. She may have thought it was what she wanted and then to have lost it ...she could be going through such turmoil about all of this. Personally, I think that it may be a good idea to talk to her.

Take care and let us know what you decide.
Hugs
Heather

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