Amen CH!


Wow, I'm going to try and respond as nicely as I can because your entire post has my back up against the wall... It's so filled with fear and stigma its unreal.


You're worried about getting cheated on, fair enough.


Ever wonder how many of us bipolar peeps have been completely faithful and explored our manic sexuality with our partners (alone), only for them to sleep around behind OUR backs???


Yep. I doubt you've even thought that demographic exists... And yet here we are. My ex bf routinely slept with my "friends".


But maybe I deserved it because I'm the crazy bipolar gf?

Idk, I'm not sure how this logic works....


If you're going to dismiss this girl based purely on the fact that she has a mental illness (regardless of who she is and what kind of person she is aside from her illness) then that's your prerogative, but please don't pretend its because this relationship has a higher potential to blow up in your face. It's because the girl according to you, is abnormal.


The least you could've done was give her the benefit of the doubt BEFORE deciding she was untrustworthy. Especially since she was so upfront about everything with u.


Instead you string her along, use her for a play thing to satisfy your sexual needs and justify it on the basis that she has bipolar.


IMO, you are the more damaging component to any potential relationship with this girl.