This is a tough topic. I respect your honesty that you put up a wall the moment she told you she's bipolar. I hope you were honest with her too and not just using the relationship as a booty call. Be honest with her. She is telling you about her hookups so she is being partially honest, this much we know. Bipolar people can be and usually are absolutely wonderful. You do need to think about the possible care she may require and your own ability to commit to this person. But this goes for all serious relationships. Any person you love could get a traumatic brain injury and be changed and would need help from time to time. It takes special people to truly love no matter what. You need to ask yourself if you're one of those people before taking another step in this relationship ((hugs)))