
Nov 05, 2016, 04:14 PM
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You point blank said that when she told you she was bipolar that you decided you would not get into a serious relationship with her, yet you did not tell her this, and yet you continued to see her and have sex with her while she voiced her desire for something more. Also, you say that she slept with you kind of early, on the second date...do you have no responsibility in that? You slept with her on the 2nd date too. YOu have control over your own body and saying no if it's too early, but you didn't.
I'm calling it like I see it: you led this girl on. The least you could have done is from the outset say, I only want a sexual relationship, I will never date you or be interested romantically. And let her decide if she could live with that.
You say you have this strong connection, but I'm sorry, I feel like you've acted very poorly towards her. I agree that you are stereotyping her as others have commented.
If you all falling for her, you need to see her for who she is, not for her disorder. And as others have said, her sexual escapades are kind of irrelevant to you because you aren't in a relationship with her. I don't find sleeping with a guy for a couple of days and then dropping him to be abnormal. I did that in my 20s all the time, and I'm not bipolar. And men do that to women frequently and they don't get labeled bipolar for it.
I don't mean to be mean to you, but I really think you need to re-examine your own actions in this relationship and situation.
Good luck,
seesaw
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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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