I've got this feeling one of my 14yr old daughters maybe gay. They always say a mother knows first. I maybe wrong. I've given her space to talk about the subject, which she has been doing. She's been "testing" my reaction I feel with storys of "friends" that are gay or feel they maybe. I've ask her how she feels about that? and told her that in my opinion it isn't a big deal and I'd be fine with it if I was their parent. Maybe she is just curious about "friends", but if it is her trying to come to terms with her own sexuality then thats ok too. Would I try and "talk" her out of her own sexuality? Why would I? Weather its genetic, or the physchic outcome to the mother/child relationship, I have no idea, but the fact is, homosexuality is as much a part of the human experience as anything else, we as a species supposed to go forth and multiply LOL, the "marriage" man love woman stuff is all the romace us humans have created LOL, you can be gay and go forth and mulitply, I love my daughter exactly as she is, and who she is isn't down to me its down to her at the end of the day.
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