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Originally Posted by ValentinaVVV
I am fine. I just "talk" to him and he is still acting the same as he ever has. So, I don't care if anyone changes or not. But I have done the work on myself that has put me in the place that I am at. I have grown up with emotionally abusive people.
For them to want to see me, THEY have to change, not me. I have boundaries and I have behavior that I don't tolerate.
I am sorry if the clinicians are helpful. But since NARCs this they are perfect...
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OK, I get that that is the "party line" put out by the clinicians, but it doesn't really seem that you are that happy with it. If you were -- what is the attraction for you to initiate this thread in this forum, for people with NPD and related disorders? Of course, you can initiate any thread anywhere you want, but I'm wondering if -- given your perspective and where you are coming from on that -- what would you think about asking the mods to move this thread to the Partners of People With Personality Disorders forum?