I'm sorry if I'm triggering the whole forum. I'm sure others have had it much worse and they can't even bring themselves to talk about it.

I could have handled this better without the anger. But I still would have told her the same about me ending my involvement and how she has to make her own tough choices, as she is NEVER living with me.

See her mother lived with her the final years of her life. My mother has made countless comments about how that is the right thing to do, so I knew it was coming where I was going to be the one who was expected to take her in.

Although she never outright said it, in fact she lied saying just the opposite, I knew this day was coming.

Si I jumped the gun and had this out with her now at this last betrayal she just pulled on me.

It's so sad to not even be able to trust your own parent.