I feel the same way,, usually what I'm dealing with emotionally is enought to knock it to the background.. but there are times when I feel so untogether and just blah. I have dentures on bottom teeth and not the best other, I usually don't have energy or want to put make up on and am not the most stylish person.. T is really sharp and looks very together. all the time.. sometimes he makes comments on his self care and making sure to take care of the lilttle things everyday.. I feel bad for how disgusting I feel physically so i kind of "pass by " those comments and sometimes think to myself.. ugh.. it looks like he takes good care of himself and that is good and honestly I feel safe like that.. but it still makes me feel bad about how I feel about myself. like I'm less thatn