It involved webcams and communicating with someone online sexually. He swears he never had any intentions of meeting her, and it was just a physical outlet since he says we don't spend enough time together (mind you, I stay over his place at least once per week and all the other times, I'm busting my *** working). To me, I treat it as infidelity, and no one can convince me otherwise. Also, I've been through a lot of sexual trauma, and I felt exploited since he knows about how my past still affects me. I can expect this type of behavior coming from others, but I never guessed he would do something like this, and he knew how it would affect me if I found out, but he went ahead and did it any way.