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Originally Posted by ElsaMars
It is fair for you to take all the time you need. It might be helpful to tell him "I'm processing some things and need some time to myself to think so please allow me some space, I'll come to you when I'm ready to talk". This way he won't be worried, wondering or trying to co tact you while you think things through. (((Hugs)))
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Thank you. That describes my feelings perfectly: I need time to process things, and I need space. This morning, I told him I needed time to think, but he texted me messages later in the day too saying "I miss you so much." I wish he took the hint that when I say I need time, it means I need more than a few hours.