freewill, this forum is very helpful for a lot of people but it is not the whole world.
reality is different for each person.
what each person finds helpful and perhaps, even be hurt by, is not the same for everyone.
take what is good and positive from pc and ignore the rest.
that's what i do!
posts are just little slices of thoughts at that very minute and the person who writes them can always change their mind..including you and me....so don't let them rule your life...guide it perhaps, but not rule it.