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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
None of these will be displayed in her office though. She shares her office with another T, and it's all the other T's stuff. All the items are fairly small. I just want her to have little pieces of me. If I could give her one at a time, say one a week till we terminate, I would. And the expectations are that she only accepts the gifts. What she does with them is none of my business.
But seeing the concern, I guess I should talk to her beforehand.
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Did you see the ACES and resilience tests somewhere else on PC today? One of the questions was about, did someone play with you when you were a baby or stg like that. Not sure how i know, but i have had my suspicions about this. Ive tried to research it and havent found much, ie neglect in this area. But from my experience, this is about the infant STARTING to interact with another person, trying to MOVE that person. Its a very powerful moment for the child. I can see my family totally disavowing that moment for me, totally rejecting my development.
As for me, i cant deal with my closest cousins' grandchildren. Thats what your ex t having a kid reminded me of. Its like, dont expect congratulations from me.
So, why havent you given your t some of these gifts already? Or at least bring em in and talk about them. One of the first things i brought my t was a bag of steel cut oats. It lowered his cholesterol. I kinda thought it meant we should get married, because what i did had such a tremendous effect on him - what can it mean if someone has such a tremendous effect on someone else? Its very confusing.