Our stories are pretty much the same. I didn't see him for years but now we have 4 grandkids in common. Luckily, two live out of town. The only time I see him now is in Oct and Jan at two of the grandkids birthday parties.

If the tables were turned, there would be absolutely NO WAY he would let me visit an ex! I'm blessed that I don't have a jealous husband. He's pretty open minded knowning that this man's illness affects the kids he raised and calls his own. He wants to be as supportive of them as he can.

Do you think I might be feeling some guilt?? I don't know what about. LOL If anything, he owes ME. But like I said before, I guess I've forgiven him. The price he's now paying for all his evil deeds is way too much!

CJ, thank you for your response. I truly appreciate it. You haven't been going through a very easy time, either.