I think your going to have a hard time finding a guy that check marks all your wants, what are you willing to change for him about yourself and what activities you both agree and enjoy.

My marriage ....


My husband and I have a healthy relationship because we share lots of common interest and we also do things apart.

If I were in your situation I would honestly be looking for a date based off what activities you're into. That to me makes the most sense.... Right?