Thank you so much everyone for your responses and support. His texts saying "I miss you" and "I love you" seem manipulative, because if he already said earlier that he is not willing to change his actions, then his words do not mean much. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point he contacts me and then says he will change, since he sees that he's not getting away with this. Well, too little, too late. Staying in a relationship with him would be toxic. In fact, I think I need to be alone for a while.

I did not respond to his attempt to reach out tonight. It's too upsetting for me to even reach out to him. I think distance from him is the solution. I want to move forward (without him), and I'm glad that at least now I can see him for who he is and not who I want him to be.