just wanted to say too that as some know I am in my 4th marriage. One of my ex's use to hit on me and force me into things I did not want to do. I was with him 10 yrs til I got sick of it. he always put his children above me and mine. It took a long time for us to get past our divorce. today we are able to talk and actually have fun together. our son was here a few weeks ago and we all went motorcycle riding. guess where I rode? on the back of his lol. my hubby followed in our car with my dad.