Mine got mad and snapped at me just a couple of weeks ago. She wanted me to do a couple of things that were WAY beyond my ability to accomplish at this point. I tried to explain why it wasn't realistic and she went back to the coping skills she wants me to use (which had admitted before didn't work well for everyone) and I told her that they only had a limited effect and not nearly what I needed to be able to follow her instructions. She snapped that I would always just be stuck and never get better if I didn't basically make life changes that I'd make if I were "cured". I was furious but I just said that I understood and left. I don't know how I can continue to work with her if she thinks that I'm not listening to her if I'm not all better suddenly (after many years of struggling). I don't know what to do really.
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