The anger has left me now and I just feel sorry for her. I gave her what she wanted for now. That's all she's getting from here on. It's not that I am a cold, uncaring, selfish, horrible daughter. It's that she is so toxic that she's just impossible to try to help or to even be around. So, I think I'll go visit her today and make peace, if she'll have peace. If she is going to hate and reject me because I put my foot down about the no more money and never living with me, then that's her choice. She just doesn't want to be responsible for herself and have to do what she has to do because she did it to herself. She can't just lie and manipulate me. But I can calmly keep my boundaries and still try to offer some relationship.

The no contact thing is really painful. I at least need to try. I am not really believing this will work. IDK...

Think CBT.