I finally thought about the way that I treated my wife for so many years. I took more than any person should and really did not give back. Now she is not sure that she wants to go through the whole thing again. It makes me sad that she thinks that I am not in love with her, but I am making an effort to send her little notes in email on her personal page and everything else I can think of. I want her to know that she is the woman I married because I am in love with her not because I just wanted to get married. Any advice?