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Old Nov 07, 2016, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by MariaLucy View Post
It is interesting to me how people assume the therapist may have a good reason to end. They might not.
that doesn't seem to be something people can compute: that therapists can just walk away without good reason.
but just because they want to.
I think they need more training about the damaging nature of abrupt termination.
I think it is about attachment. I see people here emailing, sending sms, meeting their therapist outside sessiong, getting hugs, worrying about their personal life, and I am like WTF. and I come from a dysfunctional family and have a lot of trauma, sexual absue, phyisical abuse, emotiotional abuse, neglect to the point doctors thought I was autistic as a kid, and still I don't understand it.

Maybe it's because I see my relationship with my therapist the same as I my dentist or the guy of the pet store. If the dentisit or the guy of the pet store suddendly stop working I would be a bit dissapointed because I liked him but that's all.
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