Thread: Role reversal
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Old Nov 07, 2016, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by magicalprince View Post
Possibly. But I certainly learned from my mistakes. Unfortunately I think the truth is that all professions suffer, in large quantities, from professionals who do not correctly perform or even understand their job duties. That's human beings for you.

Maybe that's the really frightening thing. Therapy can't fix you, it's just a tool and it's still up to you to either use it correctly or abuse it.

After all, even with the best therapist, a client who doesn't want to get better isn't going to.

But therapy will certainly give a client what they expect to get from it. Otherwise they won't keep paying. I'm still grateful that I had that experience because it helped me to grow.
I learned also. But it came at enormous cost and the damage far outweighs the meagre benefits. I don't see therapy as a tool for getting better. I see it as a palliative instrument that keeps you wanting more and people end up continuing to pay because some part of them longs for this beyond all reason. Which I understand cuz I became a junkie in the most horrible way. But I know some people can make use of it.