My husband hates when I get a phone call. He just let out a huge cough during a call I got and then said he had something in his throat. That's gas lighting right??? And if we are disagreeing, he will not answer a question, he always asks another question. What the hell is that? I'm married too long and I'm soooo tired! I'm ranting I guess! nothing will ever change its been going on toooo long.