i am the daughter of an alcoholic, i am 30 and have been in a relationship for 3 years with someone who i was friends with prior. my partners sister has just been diagnosed with cancer and my partner may have to be a bone marrow donor. my partners mother died 3 years ago and this has bought all those feelings back to the surface for him

my partner and his sibling take time to look after their sick sister but my partner has started to become hurtful (verbally) and attacks everything i say and says how i have no idea and how he doesn't care what is going on in my life as it isn't important or hard as his sisters and how we cant make any plans as his sister is his priority

not sure what i should do as this verbal abuse is making my anxiety so much worse and making me feel sick inside..