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Originally Posted by divine1966
I just saw that he cheated on his ex a lot and you still think he is great???
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Originally Posted by divine1966
People treat us the way we teach them. He treats you poorly because you allow it. He isn't speaking to you and knows you sit around waiting. That's ridiculous. He treats you poorly yet you think he is a great guy. Do you see a therapist? You don't think you deserve better than this?
Like crazy hitch said not too many women put up with this. You do. He has no reason to ever improve. He is on and off bad boyfriend, not like you are married and. have 5 kids together and can't leave. This is not going to get better.
I would stop analyzing why he is this way but start analyzing why are you ok with it?
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I mean his dad and 2 older brothers used to be the same way with their selfishness and they're all married and happy.
I know I deserve better which is why I'm trying to find things to say or do to open his eyes. How do I show him I won't allow it? Yesterday I didn't go out of my way to speak with him, I kind of mocked what he did. Ever since he acted like that with the music I've been short with him because I'm tired of arguing over the same petty thing. I think it's selfish. His mom says "his dad's the same way, I just put in headphones." pretty much supporting her son instead of saying "hey you do need to share".
I know I am not tied down to him but he does have a good side and like us all has a bad side. As for the cheating, he's never cheated on me (that I know of and that's what he says). His whole family said he's been very different with our relationship than he has with the ones in his past.