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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
My thoughts on your questions Karlam -
Should I leave church before making a stupid mistake?
No. Nothing's happened. No reason to leave.
Should I date someone else to get my mind off of him.
No. This is never a good reason to start a new relationship. If you're going to date someone, date someone because you're wanting to start a new relationship, not because you're using your date as a decoy for your feelings.
Should I not avoid him and see how things turn out?
I wouldn't suggest avoiding him.
Impossible to say if he "likes" you - he doesn't even know you and you're probably hiding and aloof around him.
You have one of 2 choices:-
(a) Listen to your intuition and some of the reasons that you have stated for not starting / contemplating / even thinking about entering a relationship with him
(b) Try to get to know him better through mutual friends at the church; maybe a bible study class you two can go to or something
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Thank you so much for replying.
My question is if I go with choice a and listen to my intuition
In order to do that I have to avoid him so that my feelings will die down for him
Because being around him just makes me want to hug and tell him how I feel
I can't get him out of my head it's been months now.
He approaches me and starts random conversations but he does that to a lot of people he is so smooth and iam extremely shy. He asked me for my facebook but I gave him my instagram bc I don't have facebook.
If he was younger and never married I would be with in a heartbeat.
I'm a wreck
