Maybe go for coffee after services sometime?

There are things to consider about dating an older man. The first challenge is, does he have children? You must be prepared that you would always come second. Are you prepared to be a parent and take on the responsibilities? Interests may be different. While this can provide some excitement it may pass; but be prepared to make some concessions here (just as he ought to make some to you). Similarly different generations have differing responsibilities and priorities. And, to put it bluntly, an older man may have an ulterior motive for dating a young woman.

Still, with some work and understanding, it could be successful