S4 - A very true statement. I guess that is the real question, What am I willing to endure FOREVER!!! If things stay where they are now, I think, I think I can deal with that forever. We disagree maybe once every week or so, hopefully the distrust and fear will subside over time. I am still clinging tightly to my T, and going with her gut about how long to endure or to be teh judge of what is healthy or unhealthy. I know form past experience my sense of right and wrong is a little off. Meaning I tolerate and stay for far more damage then should be expected of any one person.

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