Way to go to everyone who even makes it through one urge without acting on it. I am new here and I am enjoying being able to touch and be touched by everyones' candid desire to share and help. I have been self harm free for 2 and 1 half years now. I would like to say to those who fear the urge will never go away and those who feel like a failure when they have gone a certain amount of time without and then act on it that with time the urge can become less invasive and even disappear. I think for me the most important factors where learning all the coping skills and having people around that would always love me even if I cut. Keep up the awesome work.