I agree, sometimes chat just isn't fun. I only pop on when I need company, usually while eating dinner, so I don't feel so alone. The hosted chats, with the exception of Doc's, all seem like a lecture to me so I don't go. PTSD chat was a nice place for a while where people just met and shared about their problems, but that all changed so I don't go anymore. I guess what I liked about that one was that we could talk about our real problems, and I didn't feel so alone. I still go to whichever room has active people to be not so alone, and I leave when I feel uncomfortable or have irl things to do.