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Originally Posted by disparaissant
It's obvious people treat someone differently when they find out about a terminal illness or serious disease. I'm wondering if it is a selfish act to keep issues from friends and family. I don't want to wonder if they are treating me differently because of an illness and I want things to stay the same. I know eventually it would be inevitable that they will know, but is it wrong to want things to continue the same for as long as possible ? Opinions?
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It depends on far too many factors, I think. Will it affect them? Are they people you can trust with such things? Some things do not need to be verbalized, depending on how close you are to the people you are considering telling.