I'm so sorry for whatever you are going through. (((Hugs)))

I agree with the above poster that it depends. My mother once held some very serious health problems from me because she felt I had too much on my plate and didn't want to add more stress. When I found out I was understanding but also very hurt because she's always been there for me and I wanted to be there for her. Plus there were things that needed to be worked out that she really did need my help and experience with. But it is your body and your decision. (((Hugs to you)))