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Originally Posted by stolemyheart87
Every time I tell a guy I am a virgin and I am saving myself for marriage I get responses like this
"Honestly I don't want to lead you on. I am expecting to have sex with the person I'm dating , and I think that is a problem so I think its best I don't lead you on. I think your very nice and sweet and I think its great you've held your virginity, hope you find what your looking for, it was nice meeting you."
Why can't no man wait it out, to have sex, on marriage night, during the honeymoon when your suppose to do it. Everyone tells me being a virgin is great and that special guy will come along, but honestly I don't think that's ever going to happen.
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Why did you start this thread? You say this and then you just reverse yourself with your last post. You really don't reflect about anything anyone on this thread suggested. It's like you just defend your unrealistic criteria, responding to yourself.
You are not a strictly religious person, the waiting for the honeymoon and you are 29, is very rare. You may meet a death metal guy with a good job, who can go to concerts with you mid-week, and will marry you before having sex with you-- but you sure have slim chances of that happening.
I'm sorry to be so blunt, but there is something deeper going on with you than just these excuses.