As long as you're honest that you're still processing it, I think it's okay. I've never agreed with putting life on hold after a breakup because doing so just makes one dwell more, not get over it.

I find it has helped me. I still have times of sadness, but they're not like they were, and I'm now in a positive and fulfilling relationship. Knowing there's possibility/relationship happiness after a breakup (especially coming from an abusive relationship) is critical. Some of us, like me, need to feel and experience that, not just know it in some abstract fashion.