Merecat - do you know this therapist?
You write:
"there are many reasons why he won't or can't respond to you that have got nothing at all to do with his clinical responsibility or lack thereof and everything to do with him being employed under contract, with terms that usually prohibit personal communication with clients, or being under disciplinary or complaint which means he'd be in even more trouble if he had contact with you.

how do you know all this?