The OP's issues aren't just about her virginity. She is 29, doesn't work, didn't go to college, doesn't drive, lives at home with parents, wants to find a husband but has unrealistic, rigid demands that he have a good job, but goes to death metal concerts often with her even during mid-week, she doesn't ever want to have children, says she doesn't like them, oh and plans to remain a virgin until the wedding night, but her reasons are not because she is a religious person, she is not particularly religious, so she will not be a good match for someone who is, who is probably the only type of man who will wait until the honeymoon for sex.