I don't know about the OP's background. I am surprised to hear this information about you, Stolemyheart87. I honestly don't know what to say, but I think it's unrealistic especially in this day and age to sit at home, trying to figure out whether to have sex with a man or not to get him as a husband.

Hey, there's a life out there. A good, wonderful life of meaningful work, friends, shopping, eating out, etc. Please figure out what you need to do to get out and live, not so worried about whether a man is on the horizon. I can tell you that being married to the wrong man is much worse than living the single life.

I apologize if I am speaking incorrectly about your situation. Take care, dear one.