What do you think of the "free therapy"? My ex-T may be trying to arrange something like that, I'm not sure. I've had an email exchange with her the last few days. One of the issues we had during the "rupture" was that I was feeling taken advantage of by having to pay for sessions to try to "repair" things when I was fairly confident that it was her emotional problem as much or more than mine. That's a problem with the whole idea of "personal relationships as a business". A lot of rethinking about that is in order, I think.