My mom got remarried after I was already an adult. I recently moved across the country with my mom. I have been living with her for a few months now but have previously been out of the house for four years. Her new wife is not working and according to my mom they have an agreement that her wife won't take a job until she finds something she is truly happy with. Now that means that my mom has been paying for absolutely everything for her. Including her heavy alcohol intake. I'm working my hardest to get out of the house and back out on my own but I wiped out my entire savings when I moved. My mom has been patient with me over everything. I am currently working two jobs and am about to take on a third. Even with all that her wife chooses to nit pick me about every little thing. Her wife demands respect from me without giving it in return. I am bipolar and therefore overly emotional when it comes to these things. I do my best to stay in my tiny loft and out of the way. I do everything they ask of me. I'm not always happy about it but I do it. I am just so frustrated and at my wits end. I have tried so hard to be respectful but her wife puts all these rules on me without following them herself. It frustrates me because my mom has been in a long term relationship before where she was the provider and taken advantage of, so in all I'm having a hard time coping and keeping my emotions in control and I'm worried about my mother.