"You know what's best." That's what I keep saying to mom every time I approach something important and factual that she needs to do to survive and she doesn't want to hear it, discuss it, deal with it, tells me I'm wrong.

CBT keep telling me to dispel the faulty thinking and don't let her trigger me. I already made it clear I am not her fall back plan. Holding firm.

I'll stop trying to help her help herself, and when she is inevitably pushed into wherever with nothing left, I'll say "You know what's best!"

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh eeeeeeeeeeee! Smashes head against wall...