I've been with this guys on and off for 8 months...he's always been the one to call it off because of the arguing...but this time around he's serious. He's been shown by God that I am the girl He wants him to be with.

He's selfish- For example: Whenever we're in his car we have to listen to his (horrible) music...but when we're in my car, I can't listen to every song I would like to listen to (like some rap) because he can't stand it. I'll ask him nicely if we can listen to something else and every time it's "no this is my car...blah blah blah"...His solution to me not having to listen to his music is to put in headphones, which I feel should NOT have to happen, or drive seperately (which is uncalled for, especially considering we drive 2 hours to see eachother). We even, in the past, came to an agreement on a station...but that soon went out the window.

Lately I've been calling him out as being selfish when I feel he is. I honestly cannot take it anymore and I don't know what else to do.

He's a great guy but some of these things really irritate me.

We went camping (in a tent last weekend) and they were doing animal calls that night, when we went to bed I was a little scared. He passed right out...I woke him up after hearing a few noises and he got so angry with me and I had to BEG for him to hold me to help me feel safe...

Any advice on how to handle this is greatly appreciated!