Wait, I have to wrap my head around this. So, first what doesn't make sense to me is this: Why would you even tell people that right now you don't think care about you anyway? What I mean is, you say you don't want people that don't show you they care now to suddenly start pretending they do but my question is why are the ones that dont' care now even a consideration? I would think this would be about telling those people that seem to care about you now. Which comes down to this. I tell people personal things related to my life, only when I trust and believe they are my close friend. If they are not, they don't need to know my personal issues and problems.