He is always spontaneous! He HATES sitting down and making plans as he has no patience for it. He spends money he doesn't have and doesn't think twice about it. He kept saying that we need to sit down and go over our bills and make a budget, but when I tried to do that with him he sat down on the couch with me, and looked at the bills online for about 5 minutes before totally losing interest and flipping on the tv. His idea of talking about the bills and budgeting is saying "Well we just need to watch what we are spending on stuff and not spend it on any excess like dinners". Oh but then the next day, that all goes out the window!

Like for the longest time he was looking forward to seeing the Dr. Strange movie. It came out last weekend and Friday night he kept saying how he needs to look up what time it's playing on Sunday. Sunday came and he then had no desire to go and says we'll go Monday night because there will be less people. Monday night I get home and he goes "We aren't going to go see the movie because we need to save some money". It's $20 total for both of us, I think we can handle that, but no. And then yesterday, 2 days after he said we couldn't go to the movie because we need to save money, he shoots me an email from work saying we should meet up at the bar down the street from my work for some drinks. Ooookaaaay! We have plenty of liquor and food at home, but he wants to go out. We ended up spending about $60 there last night! Tell me where his logic is??!!

Then he tells me last night as well that he invited yet more people to come over for Thanksgiving (another coworker, his girlfriend and her 4 yr old daughter). Are you f'n kidding me??!! So now we are having 5 guests over all without speaking with me about it? He said they may have other plans so my guess is they won't come. We don't have ROOM for 5 other people in our house! It's only 1000 sq ft!