I avoid relationships completely. I have been alone for the last 3 years after destroying everything with my ex-fiance. We split a month before our wedding. It was super messy. I was unmedicated and untreated at the time. We briefly tried to fix things this year but there`s too much pain on both sides for it to work out.. other than that, I don`t do dates or dating sites or anything.. if somehow I meet someone in the real world while not looking, I will consider it.. but I am not looking for it. Too much stress and heart ache.