Are you referring to the people you meet IRL and online who you want to date?

You can keep doing and saying the same things, sticking to exactly who you are. Are you happy? You might meet people who accept and like you as a friend or for a few dates.

You have said on here that you have very strict criteria for the person you want a relationship with and your chances of finding that person are like a needle in a haystack.

If you become more realistic, you will find more guys who will want a relationship with you.

Can't you loosen your rules to when you have a true, committed relationship with a man who you can see yourself spending your life with, who feels the same about you, and you both want the same thing, then you will have sex with him? Once you both say 'love' and mean it?