My husband gets mad over silly things and talks to me angrily or puts me down .It is a hard time for the family with lots of things going on and everyone is coping to their best ability.

Though I understand that he is frustrated,I feel like it is not o.k to behave like this to me. I tried talking to him. He says I make him angry by doing or not doing things according to his expectation. I am beyond angry at him for talking like this. He doesn't come to therapy and I go alone. Nothing is getting solved.

What to do if he doesn't get it. I know I can't live with someone talking to me disrespectfully an getting angry at me and raising his voice. Is it time to walk out for this issue?? I'm so confused. Am I wrong here ?

He says he will not get angry if I do household chores and childcare properly. It is very demeaning and I don't know what to do.